Episcopal Church of the Resurrection

Author: Ellen

April Mission of the Month – 2019

Being a mother is a precious gift but being a mother and having to leave your home to find a haven must be the worst possible scenario.  Wise Hope Shelter and Crisis Center is that haven in Wise County.

Celebrating Mother’s Day in a shelter is sad, especially if the children are not with the mother.  For our April Mission of the Month we gathered items like facials, soothing lotions, hair accessories, nail polishes, devotionals, journals, pens, etc.  These items were put together in special baskets and given to the mothers who were staying at the shelter on Mother’s Day.

Thank you all so much.

If you know of anyone who needs to leave a dangerous situation, below is the shelter’s information:

Wise Hope Shelter & Crisis Center

24 Hour Crisis Hotline – 940-626-4855

P.O. Box 569 • 608 North Business 81-287 • Decatur, TX 76234

Tel: 940-626-4855  • Fax: 940-626-4117

One More March Mission

On Sunday, March 17 before our 10 a.m. service, Mike Darst, of the Court Appointed Special Advocates for children of Wise and Jack Counties (CASA) gave a presentation to our congregation, highlighting their mission of being advocates for children who have no one to speak for them in the courts.

He spoke of how we could volunteer to give hope to a child. Court Appointed Special Advocates represent the best interest of abused and neglected children. CASA Advocates speak up for children in court and help ensure that the goals of safety and stability become reality. CASA of Wise and Jack Counties served 140 children in 2018, but more children are waiting for the hope that CASA Advocates provide.

If you are interested in volunteering, you may contact Mike Darst, training and recruitment coordinator at 214-632-6611 or mike.darst@casawise.org.

Mike Darst of CASA

Additional March Missions of the Month

On a freezing cold Ash Wednesday, March 6, from 6:30 – 9:00 a.m., we held our usual “Ashes to Go,” partnering with our friends from First United Methodist Church in Decatur. The Methodist Church has a very accessible parking lot, making it convenient for folks to drive through, receive their ashes, and grab a cup of coffee, before they go to work.

Due to hours of work, many people are unable to attend a regular Ash Wednesday service at their home churches. This has been a very successful ministry.

Below are a few pictures:

February and March Mission of the Month – 2019

During February, we had a representative from Refugee Services of Texas give us a presentation outlining the many services they provide those seeking asylum. We have combined both February and March Mission of the Month so as to have enough time to choose the different ways we can help. During these two months, we will be gathering items to fill Hygiene Packs given to each refugee upon arrival.

These items are needed: toothbrushes, toothpaste, dental floss, deodorant, sanitary pads (not tampons), razors, shaving cream, shampoo, lotion, hand sanitizer, wash cloths. It is best to buy small items, such as travel size shaving cream, shampoo, lotion, etc., as the bags tend to become too hard to pack if items are too large.

After these items are gathered and delivered, we will concentrate on some of the other ways we can help, i.e., ESL and sewing programs.

Those wishing to donate may do so at www.rstx.org/donate. You may also contact their Volunteer Coordinator at 682-200-3834. Also, you can go to Amazon.com and search Refugee Services of Texas wishlist. They have numerous items from which to choose.

Below are some pictures of items collected and member toting things to the car for delivery.

Here is a picture of Myrah from Refugee Services of Texas. She was so excited to see all the goodies collected.

December Mission of the Month – 2018

As our years increase, it seems as though we have to hold our books and newspapers a little farther away until our arms aren’t long enough!

For our December Mission of the Month, we chose to gather large print books, word puzzle books, jigsaw puzzles, crossword puzzle books, sudoku books, and take them to two different senior assisted living homes.

We also gathered small embroidery kits, yarn, knitting needles/crochet hooks, colored pencils, and other items that will help the residents keep their fingers flexible and moving. Many seniors used to do these types of crafts, but now that they are living in a different place, they might not have all the familiar items they loved.

Below are a few pictures of the things gathered.

Prayer of Grief

On September 5, 2018, my world fell apart.  My husband of nearly 43 years passed away.  My guy, my love, my life–gone.  He had been sick for quite a while and the last two years were tough.  COPD is a terrible disease and a horrible thing to watch as your loved one struggles for every breath.  If you read “My Story” on this site, you know what he has gone through.

It’s not easy to talk about.  I want to share with you a poem I wrote in 2011 after my brother died at age 68.  It applies to any grief one goes through.   Today I reread it as I grieve the loss of my husband.

Prayer of Grief

                                                                   By Ellen Whitley

 

                       What is this heaviness I feel–this thing called grief?

                       Trapping me in a tomb with lava oozing down;

                       Dripping down the back of my neck; creeping ‘round my shoulders and chest.

                       It circles my heart and squeezes, making it beat erratically.

                       I feel numb, stooped like an old woman.

                       Empty; Hollow; Alone.

                       My cries are loud in my head, “Who can free me?” 

                      “I am afraid!” I shout; “does anyone hear?” 

                       A loving and omnipotent God will minister to me;

                      He, alone, will hear me and stay with me while I am bound;

                     “I will never leave you nor forsake you…..”

                     “Fear not, for I am with you…..”

                     “Be not afraid, for I am thy God……”

                      Because the walls are thick I can barely hear Him;

                      He never tires as he chips away at the stone, speaking soothing words of Love, Hope and Faith.

                      My heart beats slowly and steadily now as He breaks through the rocks around it.

                      He lifts me out of the rubble, sets me tenderly on His lap, holds me in His arms, and rocks me.

                      He alone is MY rock;

                      MY foundation;

                      MY God.

                                                                                                                       2011

November Mission of the Month – 2018

Our November Mission of the Month was threefold:  First mission was to help plan and co-host the Episcopal Diocese of Fort Worth’s convention which was held at the Decatur Conference Center, Decatur, TX.   Our sister church in the Northern Deanery*, Episcopal Church in Wichita Falls, joined us in the planning of the worship service on Friday, November 9, at 1:00 p.m.  Person after person commented on the wonderfully catered food and the quality of the hotel rooms.

All of the furnishings my husband created for our church (portable altar, altar candle holders, lectern, Paschal candle stand, and baptismal font) were carefully carried out of our Church of the Resurrection, placed in our vehicles and taken to the Center.  We set everything up at the center and arranged the furnishings appropriately.   On Saturday, all was taken down, repacked in our vehicles, and returned to our church.


We assembled the Episcopal Church of the Resurrection table, covering our church board with cloth, finding/printing out pictures, and putting trim on it.  The theme of our table was our Missions of the Month.   A picture of our church building was placed in the center with hands reaching out showing our mission work throughout our community.  Our scrapbook of each mission was on display for anyone to look through.

 

 

 

 

 

Since we became a new church plant in 2015, many people in the diocese didn’t know where we were located.  Because of that, an open house was planned for any who wished to take a tour of our tiny building and to grab a hot dog with all the trimmings, chips, other snack items, and soda or water to eat on the veranda or to put in a to-go bag for the trip home.  We believe around 40 visitors came to see where we worship.  Pictures were taken, questions were asked, food was eaten, and a good time was had by all.

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

*Deanery:  Geographical section or area within a diocese. A dean presides at meetings of the lay representatives and clergy of the deanery.

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The second mission was to assist 4Saints Food Pantry which was in need of diapers, sizes 3, 4, 5, and 6.  Our members gathered the needed items and they will be delivered to the pantry.  Below are several pictures of diapers we collected, as well as a few of our members sporting new church t-shirts.  Over 55 lbs. of diapers were collected.

4Saints Food Pantry – 4301 Meadowbrook, Fort Worth, TX  76103

4 Saints Episcopal Food Pantry is an Episcopal food bank at St. Luke’s Episcopal Church, located in the Meadowbrook neighborhood of east Fort Worth, a food desert. The pantry board has members from the Fort Worth East Deanery, which includes St Stephen’s, St Martin-in-the-Fields, St Luke’s, and St Alban’s

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The third mission was to deliver snack items to the residents living in Brookdale Senior Living, Weatherford.  The chips, cookies, etc., were greatly appreciated.

 

October Mission of the Month – 2018

October is the month we always partner with our friends at First United Methodist Church in Decatur to have a traditional Blessing of the Animals as close to St. Francis Day as possible.  Our furry friends are beautiful creations of God and He has given them to us for our care.  We gathered around our St. Francis statue on Resurrection grounds for the blessings.

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

We also support the Wise County Animal Shelter in October and they conveyed to us their need for bleach, kitty litter, and puppy food.  Below are pictures of what we collected: 160.5 lbs. of puppy food; 269 lbs. of cat litter; 10 gallons of bleach and 6.4 lbs. of kitten food.  Thanks everyone.